Women can have more meaningful, more passionate, more freeing relationships with men by understanding how men think. After all, he could be bored, lonely, being friendly, or reaching out due to work or business reasons. Which le to ultimate pain and rejection. Men are into women who have something they admire and respect. How do you know if a man admires you?
When a man admires a woman, it als deep intrigue and respect.
If a man is into you, he will look for subtle and not so subtle ways to talk to you and spend time with you. That could mean organising social events and inviting you to every single one. Does he show up to many of the social gatherings YOU go to?
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And does he always initiate a conversation with you on his own? What you want to pay attention to is: does he go out of his way to stay in contact with you or talk to you? He HAS to put forward some effort to stay in contact and speak with you directly.
Contrary to what you may believemen DO talk to their male friends about women and relationships. One pattern I tell women to pay attention to is how often a man initiates conversation with youand how consistent he is about it.
1. it takes ages for him to reply to your texts
Consistency equals interest. The same is true of activities like working out, going to work, eating, showering, sleeping… those are important activities, so naturally a routine and consistency revolves around those activities. One amazing technique is to deliberately drop the conversation and see if he naturally picks it up himself.
Try it next time when a man is talking to you.
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Just let the conversation naturally end. Then instead of asking a question or making a comment to keep it going, just be quiet and see what he does. Ever asked a guy a question and he gave a vague and unimaginative answer? When a guy is into you, he will think carefully about his answers to you.
Men generally keep their living quarters dirtier than women generally. Not making an effort equates not that into you.
1. he admires you
Loyal men will talk about how they have never cheated on a woman before. Note: watch out if he talks about cheating women… interestingly if a guy talks negatively about women cheating, it could be his subconscious commenting about his own cheating tendencies. What about the guy who only talks about sex or sells you on how amazing he is in bed?
Especially if he follows up the sex talk with negative views of being in a relationship. Giving a gift could be as simple as paying for your coffee, paying for your parking ticket or offering his last donut.
So you have to pay attention. Is he a people pleaser? Is he a generally nice and giving person? Does he offer to pay for coffees and offer help to other women or men too? Those nice guys are annoying right? Has he offered to give you a lift after work? Does he spend hours helping you research something? Is he willing to go to another room and get something for you? Does he offer to help you in ANY way?
Has he come up with date ideasoffered to give you a lift and pay for the date? Again, similar to the last point, if he does this for everyone, male or female, then he may just be a chronic people pleaser. This is an unusual .
He is overwhelmed by intense emotions. These intense emotions could be fear, depression, sadness and anxiety. A lot of men, when depressed, will retreat and hide from the world.
This is especially true if he has a mental illness or a history of depression. When a man becomes emotionally closer to a woman, this often triggers feelings of fearanxiety or discomfort, which may make him pull away suddenly. Were things going really well right before he pulled away? Look for this pattern.
And that is to trust your gut instinct. Women are highly intuitive and deep down have a hunch about whether a man is into her. Listen to what your heart is telling you. You just need to deliberately tap in and pay attention to your heart.
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Where women get into trouble is when they spend too much time in their head. Overthinking and overanalysing a man will mislead you down the wrong path. Men are simple. When a man is into a woman, he shows it in a consistent and predictable manner.
It will be obvious to you. If you know a man is into you, what do you do?
Do you lean back and wait for him to pursue you? Hey SAS-sy Beauty! ….
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