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Single men always seem to be in the game. As single men grow older, they get wiser and more confident. When I was younger I got my heart broken by an older woman.

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The messaging about being single is conflicting. It is simultaneously cast as consistently fun and ultimately tragic; essential for fulfilment but only truly acceptable in the past tense. A lot of my friends are in relationships, so when it gets to the weekend and I'm asking what everyone is doing, suddenly every man and his dog is off to Center Parcs.

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Men, all of a sudden, want to start settling down. In a couple of years, almost everyone you know will end up settling down, but sometimes, there are men who end up staying single. According to a study from the University of Nicosia in Cyprus, scientists led by Menelaos Apostolou anonymously quizzed and analyzed more than 6, comments from men on Reddit to know the 43 most common reasons why men can't find a partner or stay single.

Men who thought they looked bad or didn't like the look of themselves, particularly if they were balding or were too short, said that a woman wouldn't want to be with them. Lots 38 year old single man men also admitted to being single because of low self-esteem and not having a lot of confidence in themselves.

But this can be easily changed if you alter your mindset and see yourself in a different way. Not surprisingly, lots of men reported also have little to low effort in wanting or maintaining a relationship, and weren't putting themselves out there to potential daters.

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Unfortunately, some men just don't have any interest in being in a relationship and prefer the single life. Some men are natural flirters, but for others, it can be very hard to flirt with women.

This is due to nerves or the inability to pick up on als. For natural introverts, dating can feel difficult. These individuals might prefer to stay single and be alone.

But sometimes it's best to try something out of your comfort zone. Breakups aren't overcome instantly, and for this reason, anyone could understand why a guy would want to be single after ending a relationship.

Now, you can't base every relationship or dating experience on bad relationships from the past. Everyone is different and you don't have to be so cynical about relationships; instead, keep an open mind.

Why do some guys stay single?

This one is hard to believe because there are plenty of women out there looking for relationships. If you put in the effort to look for a mate and put yourself out there, there's a larger chance you'll be successful. In the case of the men who were single because of their insecurities, they might genuinely feel lonely, especially if they actually want a relationship but are too scared to put themselves out there. However, for others, casual hookups are the norm and they might not ever feel lonely because they don't want a relationship anyway.

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While the most common word for a single man is a bachelor, he could also be called a player if he chooses to stay single and date many women at once, without choosing a commitment to one 38 year old single man them. And as you might be able to tell from this list of why men are single, there are, unfortunately, single men who reach the age group of 35 and over without being in a relationship.

If he was still 22 and was the classic bad boy, this might be alright. They often have issues they may not even be aware of. Contrary to popular belief, men do end up losing value over time, too. Much like bitter women, the Bitter Man had just one too many bad experiences with the dating scene and now he's done.

Unlike bitter women, though, Bitter Men express their bitterness with rage and are very vocal about it. I quit! Much like the Aging Player, these men may need mental wellness help or to do some soul searching. Biological clocks happen with mentoo. One day, this guy, possibly a player, woke up and realized that he needs a family. His friends are getting worried, and so are his family members.

However, you better be willing to settle down yesterday with this one. Like, babies, ASAP. These guys, if you want to have a ring and kids, are a good option. Sort of.

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They can have baggage that might make you think twice, especially if you hear rants about baby mamas thrown in the mix. Nothing about guys like this is sexy.

This is a huge portion of the reason why so many women end up having trust issues. You see, the problem with Dumpster Fires is that they are literally unable to behave normally with other people. There are a million reasons why a Dumpster Fire could be a persona non grata in the dating scene.

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Men, more than women, are likely to just stop trying to date anyone and are also likely to stop pursuing partners. Narcissistic and totally irresponsible, the Manchild usually does believe he wants to date someone. He wants a new mom. He also wants to have a mom that is physically intimate with him and provides for him. Outwardly, though, he seems okay But this guy? This guy, you have to respect.

It takes a lot of willpower to actually admit that there are problems that need to be fixed before you get into dating again. Some of these guys swear off dating permanently, other guys are just doing a temporary break. Social standards, be damned.

Some folks are happy being single and want to stay that way. He lives an action-packed life.

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